Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Favorite "Ava ism"











Ah man, having a girl is a BLAST! Especially one that is as cute, funny, girlie, and determined as this one! Ava never ceases to amaze us with her cute little humor, sweet little gestures, and LOVE for such silly things. Here are a few of our favorite "Ava isms":
1. Nearly every morning the first few words out of her mouth is " Sower" Or shower! We have resorted to spelling it because when she hears the word, she bolts to the bathroom and will get in clothes on or clothes off!
2. Every little tiny bump, bruise, or scratch is a "boo boo" and requires and "banade" or band aid! Yes even on her cute little nose.
3. Ava loves babies and kittens! Since we have 10 kittens these days (anyone want one or three??)she walks around saying, "I want kiddy!" And is usually fast enough to grab one even if it is by the neck or foot!
4. "come on Mommy, pin!" or "spin"! Every time she hears music the girl wants to twirl in circles! Oh sweetness to my soul!
5. When Ava goes potty, she has to read her book! She also wants to "close the door" (put down the toilet seat) and "plush it" (flush)
6. I just LOVE it when she yells, "Hey boys" or "guys" when addressing her brothers! They love it and jump at her every call.
7. Walking through target one day, just Ava and I, she spots the hand bags, and says, "I bag mommy." Oh I just melted!!
It is so fun to watch Ava as she is talking more and more and the boys are loving her more and more.....each boy seems to "fill a role". Tyler is the one she calls for when she needs to get down or wants to be carried. When have family movie night, Bryce is the one she snuggles with, and Dylan is at all times the one that has to hold her hand and chase her around the house. It is so fun to watch as their relationships grow. How blessed we are with these sweet little guys/gal!

Thursday, March 05, 2009











I'm Back!!

So I took a little time off......ok so actually I have just had NO time to even sit, much less "blog". So on this fine Thursday afternoon, while the children are napping/taking QT, I am sitting on my rear, eating lunch and attempting to blog!
**Applause please!**
Well not much has happened in the past month, nothing out of the ordinary that is. Dustin and I got a chance to get away to Hilton Head for a few days, that was heavenly! Dustin is loving his new job and it keeps him busy! The boys just started soccer season last week! We are excited to be back in the think of things as Dustin starts his season as well. All this means SPRING is right around the corner! I can't believe we had TWO days of snow this year, the kids love it, but I must be honest and say, BOOOOO for snow. I am not a big fan of the cold!
We are still involved with the Montagnard family and have seen the trust in our friendship grow over the last few months! The whole family came over last weekend to hang it. It was fun to hear their story and why they are here. Dustin enjoyed meeting Bien's husband Vang. He is a sweet, gentle man that enjoys playing the guitar! He has not been able to play since they left Vietnam 3 years ago. The kids had fun playing with their 4 kids as well. I am thankful the Lord has brought them into our life. Oh -side note- They are moving into a Habitat house in April! While it is very exciting to have their own place, they are in need of furniture. If you have a few things you are willing to part with, let me know!
Life with four kids is BUSY! We generally do not have a quiet moment in the house unless, they are sleeping or gone! The other day, however, I was folding laundry and noticed that the house was very quiet. A little too quiet. I look in the sun room to find Ava sitting quietly alone, playing in her kitchen and having a tea party. Dylan was in the other room playing legos, Ty reading a book, and Bryce coloring. I have no idea how long I stood there marveling at the quiet! I can see a light at the end of the tunnel!!!! I WILL have moments when there will be peace! Ok....so that was just one moment, but hey will take it!!
The boys are all over the place......they love love to battle daily and make anything into a gun, sword, or light saber. The ceiling sounds like it is going to cave in most days from the running and jumping. I am amazing at how funny a burp or fart is every single day! The word poop or bottom will have them rolling on the floor forever! Seriously, boys are so much fun, they can entertain for hours!
Miss Ava is getting so big! She is talking up a storm and loves her big brothers! She is turning into a little girl before my eyes! She loves to play in her kitchen, help me clean, and loves to hold and animal or baby that comes her way. She often says, "oh cute" or "pretty" when she sees a necklace or a baby or animal. It is so funny to me!
Dustin and I are doing P90X, a workout series we saw on an infomercial! It is GREAT! Ok, it is tough, but we get to do it together most days and it has so fun to be together! The boys and Ava have joined us in some leg and ab workouts, so precious! Overall, life is good! We have been extremely blessed with each other, our children, a tremendous community of believers, and wonderful friends!

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Africa snapshots

Recap on Africa

So the hardest question to answer when you get home from a trip like we were just on is "So how was your trip" It is like trying to answer the question "What is it like to be a parent" There is more than you can possible wrap into words. But here is my attempted. 27 men set out to take on a task that was far bigger than ourselves, that demanded more from us than we could give on our own, that took us to places we could not have imagined even if we were told, allowed us to meet people who know Christ in a way that we seldom can describe, see God's beauty in a way that in indescribable, saw human suffering at a level that we don't understand in America and walked with God in a way that took us to some of the deepest places in our souls. God opened something in our hearts and lives that we all will never be able to adequately explain, but we are called to tell the story. So here is my details.
Gulu Uganda, a place ravaged by a civil war for almost 20 years. We spent 3 1/2 days here. We served alongside Aloysius Kyazze and the Sports Outreach staff at several ministry sites. The first day we helped serve at the Kirombe Center in center of town Gulu. We helped paint a school and build a fence while children came all around from the surrounding villages. We shared in song, dance, prayer and smiles together with the Ugandans for the day. The next two days were spent at the Koro Farm and the Good News Center. A place the Eagles went 2 years ago to break ground on this 32 acre haven in Gulu. Since then, the staff have built a church/school building, a brick making house, guest houses, a piggery, barns, cattle farm, goat farm, two well, and a cooking center. It is a place of life, teaching, Christ and Hope. Our days there were spent at church worshipping, making bricks (658 of them), an night prayer and worship meeting, having meals, sharing in dance and being alongside our brothers and sisters in the Lord. The evening were spent playing soccer matches against local teams and sharing the Gospel with the group after. In these two days we saw 50 people come to know the Lord. We worked hard, played hard, prayed hard and enjoyed serving together.
The net day we went further out into the bush to a village called Lugutu. This is a place Sports Outreach is expanding into. We took our brick making machine and spent the day making bricks for the school they are on the process of building, We carried water from the well, cut grass, visited homes, prayed for them and again ended the day with a soccer match and Gospel presentations. It was a long, hot, tiring day, but God gave the strength to press through and make His name known Lugutu in words and actions.
From there we went to nairobi. We spent a day in the Mukuru slum, where 500,000 people live in about a square mile. I don't have any other way to explain this place except for calling it Hell on earth. And in this place, the Sports Outreach staff lead by Franklin run a school and feeding program with about 300 kids in it, do a weekly HIV program with 70 HIV positive mom's involved, help a micro finance program called Project Lydia and run soccer based outreach programs for kids. It is one of the hardest places to comprehend and digest, but praise the Lord that Sports Outreach and the staff work so faithfully in this place.
We ended our time with a safari. One of the most beautiful displays of God's creation. We enjoyed a day together seeing His creation and enjoying a day of rest before our return home.
Those are the brief details of what we did. But it does not tell the story. The story is best understood by coming and seeing. I hope and pray that one day you can go with me so you too will understand the full story. Until that day, just know that 27 men came back changed by what we saw, heard, smelled and took in. I pray that it makes us stronger warriors for our One True King, better husbands, better fathers, better friends and workers,
Thanks for praying, and following the trip with us, God did great things in our lives.

YT

Saturday, January 24, 2009

We got snow!












We had a very exciting Tuesday! The boys woke up at 6:15 and started yelling "Mommy wake up, it really snowed!" Wow, it was early and they were excited! We waited for Ava to wake up and then ventured outside. We were in and out until 2:30 that day! The kiddos loved it for short spells. My "southern" babies just couldn't handle the cold like a "northerner" can!

New Years Eve 08

Happy 5th Birthday Bryce!

Christmas 08

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Who took it?

This morning Ava wanted to take a shower. (Her new thing!) She was in there for awhile when Dylan came into the bathroom wanting to get in the shower as well. So he gets in and she is ready to get out soon after. As I am taking her out,
Dylan says, " Mommy, Ava doesnt have a penis."
"I know buddy, she is a girl."
He says, "I know that mommy, but who took her penis?"

Friday, December 12, 2008

Montagnard Family

This past semester I have had the privilege of sitting under some amazing women! We did a study titled, God of Justice and Compassion. It was so amazing week in and week out learning about the heart of God. His heart for the poor, the needy, the widows,and the oppressed. We had a few speakers and a few field trips during the 3 months we were together. During this time, God really grabbed a hold of my heart. Rachel Humphries came to our bible study to explain what she is involved with.....Refugee families. Ways we could partner and really be a blessing to families that are here. Here is a quick summary about the ministry:

Fruitful Friendships:
A program designed to establish friendships and connections between the refugees and the greater Charlotte community.

Refugees often want little more than an American friend with whom they can practice their English and from whom they can get answers to questions that help them navigate their new culture. In addition, there is often a lack of fresh fruits and vegetables in the diets of recently arrived refugees.

Fruitful Friendships needs families or individuals to devote an hour a week to deliver a basket (or bag) of fruits and vegetables to these families, as well as spend a short amount of time talking with them and helping them feel more connected to America.

I started visiting my sweet friend Bien! She is so sweet and gets so so very excited when I come through her door! She has 2 daughters ( I have not yet met) ages 8 and 10. She also has 2 boys the same ages as Dylan and Ava! John and Jack just light up when the boys and I come over. John (3) has grown to adore Ty and Bryce and cries when we leave! I really can't explain the over whelming joy that I feel when I leave their house.

Will you commit to pray for this family and their transition to the states. They have been here for 3 years, but America is not their home and the cold weather, the food, and the language barrier can be extremely overwhelming.




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Sunday, December 07, 2008

Labor of Love

My sister in law sang this beautiful song (she is a great singer so that made it more beautiful) at church last week and I can't seem to get the words out of my head! I was moved to tears by these words....as a mother I can somehow relate to Mary, in the fear, the joy, and the unknown. This week as I have read Christmas stories to my children I think of this song and can see sweet Mary with tears rolling down her cheeks as Joseph held her little hand. It is such an amazing picture in my head.....I can not even express in words....if you get a chance listen to this song and read the words. May God move your heart as He has mine these last few weeks as we prepare to celebrate the birth of our Great Savior!



Labor Of Love
by: Andrew Peterson

It was not a silent night
There was blood on the ground
You could hear a woman cry
In the alleyways that night
On the streets of David's town
And the stable was not clean
And the cobblestones were cold
And little Mary full of grace
With the tears upon her face
Had no mother's hand to hold
It was a labor of pain
It was a cold sky above
But for the girl on the ground in the dark
With every beat of her beautiful heart
It was a labor of love
Noble Joseph at her side
Callused hands and weary eyes
There were no midwives to be found
In the streets of David's town
In the middle of the night
So he held her and he prayed
Shafts of moonlight on his face
But the baby in her womb
He was the maker of the moon
He was the Author of the faith
That could make the mountains move
It was a labor of pain
It was a cold sky above
But for the girl on the ground in the dark
With every beat of her beautiful heart
It was a labor of love
For little Mary full of grace
With the tears upon her face
It was a labor of love

Saturday, December 06, 2008

Wild Fun!











We have been having a blast this month! We took the boys ice skating for the first time! What a BLAST! They all feel numerous times, but picked it up surprisingly fast! They really enjoyed it and can't wait to go back!
Randomly last week, Ty came downstairs all dressed for the day with a soccer sock for a tie! He kept asking when he could get a real one....so Bryce, Ty, and I went off to Target to find one! (I love it when my kids MAKE me have to go to Target:-) We looked high and low and was about to give up when Bryce gave a Swinehart yell, "There they are!" Ah so fun! The boys took forever picking them out.....and here they are wearing them to church, such sweet boys!
Miss Ava Joy is growing up before my eyes! Ah, it is so sad and exciting all at once! She is a hoot! She is so opinionated in what she wears (she gets it honestly) and LOVES for me to put "bow" in her hair. She found a paper clip one day and said, "bow" and tried putting it in my hair! She is doing fairly well still on the potty, she knows how to do it, but is turning out to be a bit stubborn about it. Only on her terms........She makes the cutest little faces and her latest is to purse(sp?) her lips! I LOVE IT! It is adorable and I have many pictures of me doing the exact same thing as a little girl.
I love catching rare moments when all 4 kids are loving each other and playing so nice together! I got one the other day when all 4 of them were in their own band! So cute....however it did not last long as Bryce got mad and left because he did not want to be the singer. Ava then tried to leave as well, however her exit was not as graceful, as she got hit in the head with the jammin guitar! Poor baby....
Life in our house is WILD FUN! We hope your house is just as wild and fun as ours!



O Christmas Tree



We went to the Christmas tree farm again this year! We went with our friends, the Johnsons, and had a GREAT time! The older the kiddos get, the easier and more fun it seems to be. (God uses these times to confirm that we are done having kids:-) The boys were so excited to have saws in their hands....all three of them! Scary as that sounds, they did great obeying the rules. ex: No sword fighting, don't use as light sabers, and keep the cover on! Ava loved the freedom to run around and grab the trees. The boys found the perfect tree for their playroom in record time! We enjoyed a "private" hayride, hot chocolate, candy canes and a nice fire!

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Surprise!

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

NYC

3 Weeks ago, Dustin and I went on my surprise 30th birthday trip! He had my friend CC pack my bags since I was not to know where we were going! When we finally dropped off all the kids and got to the airport, Dustin handed me my ticket saying...New York City! I was so excited, I have never been and really really wanted to go! I was so giddy with excitement as we sat and waited for the time to board. Of course our flight was a bit delayed....we finally board and I am texting to make sure the kiddos are ok when up walks CC and Ashley! THEY were going to NYC with us!! I was really speechless as I had NO idea that anyone was coming along. I barely was able to speak again when Gregg walked onto the plane! I was again in utter shock!! I was so giddy the entire flight! Once we arrived to the NYC airport I was ready to get to the city! Never mind that it was already 9:30! We are just standing around waiting for our bags when Dustin says I think some of our bags are here. I turn to look only to find Chris riding the baggage claim holding a box of chocolates! I nearly screamed! I smiled so much that night, my face hurt!
We stayed in a friends place 2 blocks from central park and minutes from Times Square! We were in heaven! We walked so much the next three days. It truly is a city that never sleeps. We went to China town, Little Italy, Central park, ground zero......really everything a first time New York visitor does. (Minus a show)
It truly was the 2nd best trip of my life. (second only to my honeymoon) I felt incredibly loved, celebrated, and treasured! Here a some pictures in random order. Enjoy! (ps I turn 30 12/19!)

Monday, November 24, 2008

GO BUCKS!


















We had our annual OSU vs Michigan football party on Saturday! There was great energy on both sides coming into the game. The clan of Michigan fans came storming in banging on drums and playing their march song, while the OSU fight song was blaring in our house. Poor Ava had no idea what to think as she was eating lunch and overwhelmed. The boys LOVED every minute of it and could not understand even for a minute why they would root for "The Michigans." We had a great time hanging with friends and loved that the BUCKS WON!

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Join me in the challenge!

A fun way you can give gifts and help in the water and/or food crisis:

compassioninternational.com.com You can go on here and buy T-shirts where proceeds go directly to clean water or food campaigns!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

"If you could do anything.....

.....and you knew you could not fail and money was not of importance.....What would you do?"

We were asked that question last weekend in CLF. It didn't take me long to know that I am doing exactly what I want to be doing. Being a Mommy, a wife, and in full time ministry. BUT, if I had to pick something other than that, I would be a Midwife and/or work in an orphanage. Dustin: a professional golfer or do exactly what he is doing!

How about YOU?! What would you do if you could pick your dream job, no chance of failing, and no matter how much money you made.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Tuesday, November 04, 2008

My little Diva!


Ava LOVES earrings and was thrilled when she discovered the boys pirate earrings! She also loves having her hair done and today she could not decide what to wear in her hair, so we went for a little of everything! (She also had to have her socks on over her footed pjs)
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Happy Halloween!




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